OK..OK..OKay !!!!!

I have been informed that it is mandatory for me to give my opinion on this picture of Rihanna. Since I am the father of two girls....those around me would like for me to try to imagine myself in this situation.

Well...OK...If that's what you want....Here it is!

If a female in my family was to come home looking like Rihanna does in this picture...ALL HELL WOULD BREAK LOOSE !!! There wouldn't be any statements like the one that Rihanna's dad made, about he hopes she stands up for women all over. That's cool and a great thing to say for the media, I just think that the emotions caused by the situation itself would lead to a way more controversial outcome. I couldn't take it. There was a comment out there supposedly made by Jay-Z...it eluded to the fact that Chris should watch his back. I can relate to that WAAAAAYYYYY more than what Rihannas dad said !!!

That's just the nature of my Family !!!

As for the fellas, its been said over and over again. If you're dealing with a chick that makes you feel like you want to beat her ass, you gotta let her go! Don't let her provoke you into hitting her cuz then you're in a whole other category as a person. YOU WOULD BE WEAK !!! YOU'RE CORNY !!!! YOU'RE A BITCH FOR TAKING IT THERE!!! and then you would deserve for every male in that girls family to come thru and PUT THE MUTHAF*&%ING BEATS ON YOU !!

That is all......I really wasn't gonna get into it but I was told that I was taking the easy way out by posting the pic and not commenting on it.....so there you go !!

The Wild Out Valentine's Day Bailout !!!

This is Jaysen and Shonda! Jaysen is the winner of the Valentine's Day Bailout.

He messed up bad. Shonda bought him a CAR for Valentine's Day and he didn't get her ANYTHING !!!! He had to make up for it, so we decided to help him out. The tattoos were painful but they stuck it out for the love! They got the room at the Ashford Suites this weekend too, so you know what it is !!!

Valentine's Day !

It's the perfect opportunity to spoil your daughters, as well as your lady.
Here's my plan.

If I spoil them every Valentine's day, by the time they get older and date, they will be used to the idea of being shown love. Expecting gifts is not what I mean. I mean hanging out spending quality time and all the positive aspects of that. Hopefully my plan will work and the selfish scrub type of dudes, who don't have my girls best interest in mind, won't even appeal to them!!! They'll be to busy looking for a guy that treats them as well as their father does!!

And we all know THAT is IMPOSSIBLE !!

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Just a glimpse into the Studio !!!!

What's good??

It's "bring a visitor to work day" so I wanted to invite you to the studio.

Come on in!!

Chris "Tough Guy" Brown

chris brown gettin punked on mtv...



Here's Chris Brown on Punk'd showing a little bit of his "TEMPER"

I know it's Punk'd and the object is to make people angry but what stands out is Chris' threats against the waiter.

Could this have been a sign of what was to come for Rhianna??
Are Chris Breezy's buttons easily pushed??
Is he tougher then the average, teenage R&B singer??

You make the call !!!

IF YOU WANT TO SEE THE WHOLE SEGMENT......GO TO THIS LINK:

http://www.spike.com/episode/16778

Dumbing Out in the Studio

Not for any real reason......I just love the song!!!

Do as I say....not as I do.

I was always told that as a kid.



But do kids really abide by that line of thinking?



If I tell my daughters not to drink, as I crack open a heineken, are they gonna listen to what I tell them or copy what they see me doing? But don't get me wrong, its not just about drinking? At what age do you stop shielding your kids from your own bad habits.....or do you just never hide them to begin with. I used to say that when I had kids, I was gonna be an open book.....one hundred percent real. No Santa, no Easter Bunny, no Tooth Fairy....none of that!!! Then I actually had kids and that philosophy went out the window! Cuz you wanna keep them kids for as long as possible. You're scared that if you expose them to something too early, they'll develop a bad habit from it. The problem that comes into play is that you don't want to raise them to be naive about the realities of the world in the process.

I guess the answer is balance......but who knows where the line is!

I don't know.....This world is crazy....I just want my girls to be able to PRODUCTIVELY survive in it.

I love them too much to fail them!

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Let me explain......In this Video, here's whats happening.

Jamin and I are really battling on these lanes. At this moment, he's struggling to hold his slim lead and the frustration is showing ( thus the growl into the camera.) My Uncle Rob's a little crazy ( you can tell by the dancing) but very entertaining (once again, you can tell by the dancing.) My sis, Khalea ( and the rest of us Nephews and Neices of his) love to imitate the things that he does for our own personal amusement (you can tell by how she's dancing!) My Brother Kai has had few drinks at this point and has decided that the pins at the end of the lane, are his mortal enemies. He feels he must destroy them all by THROWING THE BALL WITH ALL HIS MIGHT in order to obliviate every last one of them!!! The only problem is, he only hits a few.

I was lucky enough to capture all of these RANDOM actions in about 1 minute and 22 seconds. Imagine what the rest of the night was like !!! What a great moment in time!!

Too early

This is what it looks lik on my way TO work. ......RIDICULOUS!!! But......its all for you triad! Holla at you in a few at 6am!!!

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Why.....

Why aren't the Eagles in this superbowl game?

Why isn't my father here to make this family pic complete?

Why am I so short?

Why is my Brother so tall?

Why is he he looking at the top of my head in this picture?

Why can't we afford what we really want until we're too old to enjoy it?

Why was I lucky enough to be born into this family?

Why are we as black people so concerned with flossing?

Why don't we stop talking S#&t all the time .........Just do it!

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